Sunday, July 29, 2012

Read what Encomium Magazine wrote about Stephanie Adie Henshaw

This is what Encomium magazine reported; unknown to many, expect close friends, Stephanie Adie Henshaw has never been married before Reverend Christopher Okotie in the true sense of the word. The mother of three children from two men has rather been a victim of abuse and ill-luck with a chequered history of marital woes that ended up breaking into pieces her fragile heart.
Stephanie’s first love before Okotie came into the picture was a young man she met through a friend in Lagos. With no intention of marriage, being quite young then, the innocent Calabar girl, unfortunately got pregnant for the man. Please click to continue reading…

She was still carrying his baby when he was shot to death in Surulere, Lagos. The tragic death of Stephanie’s hat would happen to her years after.


    “The pain they inflicted on Stephanie after the death of the father of her fisrt child was unbearable. One day, she was invited by the man’s people to know how the child was faring. And before she knew what was happening, they took custody of the child. She never set eyes on the boy until two, three years ago,” a highly reliable source told ENCOMIUM Weekly.


We further learnt that Stepahnie’s son was taken to England where he schooled before returning to the country. He has since reunited with his mom.

Stephanie Henshaw’s affair with one businessman, Mazi Okechukwu (Okey) was totally built on deceit which was not initially to the knowledge of the ravishingly beautiful lady.


    ”Stephanie didn’t know that Okey was a fraud. Okey told her he was not married. He was building a house back then in Omole Estate. Okey had rented a house for Stephanie in Ikeja, Lagos. And each time he sneaked out to see his first wife and children, he would say he had gone to see his mother. The day she found out the truth, she literally fainted,"our source revealed.


It was in-between this affair that produced two sons that Rev.Okotie, who had been admiring Stephanie from a distance started walking into her life.

ENCOMIUM Weekly learnt she was naturally pissed off with the Igbo businessman and literally needed a man she could call hers. From what we were told, Okotie staked his reputation, and risked his life to have Stephanie.


    “He really loved Stephanie. There was nothing he wouldn’t do for her. Okotie had cause to jump a fence for the sake of this love. Of course, you already know, he was attacked physically on several occasions all for Stephanie.
    "It was this same Okey that smashed Okotie’s windscreen and all that. He, however, had to give up when it was obvious that Stephanie was no longer interested in the relationship. After all, there was no marriage to be dissolved,
    since there was none in the first place".


A born again Christian for almost 20 years, we were informed that Stephanie has always known God despite her marital woes.

Our source who had known Stephanie for many years warned those castigating her to maintain their cool. She even threatened to open up on many more issues relating to her four year marriage to Rev. Okotie if pushed to the wall.

Before now, the impression engraved in people’s consciousness was that Stephanie was a widow and divorcee. an allegation her close friends and family members are now making serious effort to debunk.

Relatedly, more facts are beginning to emerge, throwing more light on the remote and immediate circumstances that contributed to the crash of her marriage to Household of God’s Chris Okotie on Sunday, June 24,2012.

Information at our disposal has it that Stephanie was not going to church as often as she was supposed to as pastor ‘s wife. She had also been accused of being stubborn, while another wicked allegation they fired at her had to do with bi-sexualism.

Rev. Chris Okotie’s image maker, Mr. Ladi Ayodeji, in his response to ENCOMIUM Weekly’s inquiries on the issue that same day said they have no comment on any issue related to Okotie/Stephanie marriage break-up.

    “We have nothing to say on this issue. Please go ahead and write whatever that pleases you.”

Meanwhile, Rev. Okotie is yet to say anything about why his marriage to Stephanie surprisingly crashed. He said nothing on the issue at the Wednesday (July 11, 2012), Household of God’s midweek service.

That was also the situation on Sunday, July 15, 202. The charismatic preacher, who adorned a black trouser, white shirt and checked coat concentrated on the message of the day which centered on God’s power of delivery.

And as has been the situation since he separated from his wife, the church was also filled to capacity. Before the church dismissed around 1.30, members born in July were not able to present a drama, No Gossip in the House, which they had earlier announced that Sunday service.

July 22, 2012 marks the fifth Sunday Okotie’s marriage of four years to Efik, Cross River born Stephanie Adie Henshaw crashed. Nothing officially has come from the couple as regards their marital crisis.

Reverend Okotie has maintained calculated silence on the matter since his announcement on June 24. while Stephanie only made references to her marital travails in a recent Facebook update.

Culled from Encomium Magazine

69 comments:

  1. We should write anything we like? Pastor u no go like am ooo.

    On the real though, world people should leave these two alone, divorce is not fun.

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    1. Fatimah! \\('_')// Where have you been?

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    2. Fati bom bom! Whata gwan? We ve missed ya! Welcome back. Ur biggest fan(blushing/batting lashes)

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  3. irrespective of what they r trying to convey to their readers the article to me is potraying a lady who has been unlucky in love and who has been taken advantage of by diff men due to the situation she found herself .in a sane country and law abiding society ppl like the useless chief would have been slapped on the head with an harassment suit and also a restraining order.
    i have always rooted for her since the first time the whole story broke out about the divorce with okotie and the fact that he hasn't come out to reply her shows that her stance has been vindicated...

    the only problem is that all these useless old rich politicians will not let her rest now as they no dey see fine yellow woman for eye

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    1. A harrasment not an! Yoruba boy :P I'm yoruba too just poking fun at our h factor

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  4. Le Professeur! I've been around ooo, just decided to chill far away from blogs. What's good?

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  5. Interesting. I pray God gives them the grace to get thru this AND make a wiser and godly decision next time(if they choose to marry again). It looks like Okotie was purely infatuated and may not have seeked the face of God or gotten to know Stephanie long enough to see whether they were compatible or not.

    I can't help but wonder tho....I can understand her having a child as a teen and all....but how does a full grown woman have not just one, but two children for a man she is not married to? Haven't met his family/friends/friends' wives? Attended public functions/church with? etc. I mean, as a married man, its obvious he was stashing her away....and that didn't raise a red flag? I don't get o!

    Ona

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    1. my dear,
      I've been in a relationship with a married man, lived in his house for a year, met his friends, gone out with him regularly as his babe, without knowing he was married!

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    2. Me too,its hard to tell

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  6. I don't believe this story. Waves to my girl Fatimah. E wo lo wa? Sho wa kpa?

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  7. LOL! in my opinion, they are just trying to make her look like a victim. she reeks of stupidity. how are you going to have 3 kids for two different men you aren't married too? abegie jo! and no im not being judgemental. i do not see her as a victim of anything. women get deceived all the tiime, yes its bad but she was stupid enough to have two kids without a proposal. and as for that pastor LAWL! did he say no gospel music abi july dance because he is going through a divorce?

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  8. Na wa o as pretty and gorgeous this woman is ko lori oko( she cnt fie a husband) kai life na now i knw say beauty has nothing to do with certain things in life

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  9. Oma G *waving right back*, mo wa pa ooo! (I have missed you, no be small) no mind them na, dem don see mumu na, wasn't it reported that she was married to his late Best friend? Na them sabi sef. I'm tired of them already, acting like D'banj and Don Jazzy with their if I talk my own, the world will...

    If I am not getting it all twisted, she was married to Okotie's BF before he died and then she got married to this really abusive man with our Dear Pastor playing interventionist and messiah all the time till she left the man...

    Anon 29 July, 2012 15:56, she actually looks stupid! always doing that her mouth one kain, one kain. I tire jo... They are both victims... only of each other's shenanigans. Pastor is not pure, neither is she. They are supposed to live happily ever after, no?

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    1. Thanks jare, Fati. Na wa for ur disappearing act o

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  10. I have wanted to post something like this on my site and you have given me an idea. Cheers.

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  11. Hmmmmmmn na waooo...tis well *sigh

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  12. 20 years of being born again yet 3kids outside marej!Define fornication and adultery*crosses leg,sips chapman!

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    1. I swear God bless...

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  13. This is a PR stunt but it doesnt help her case. Like the saying goes, " Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me" She has no case. she was deceived by Chief into having 2 children before she found out he was a fraud???? It takes atleast 18 months to have 2 children back to back. leave this matter and move on. Like the Bible says, " Where the words are many, sin is not absent". Move-on and leave everything to God!

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  14. Madam Stephanie. You caused another woman pain by having two ilegitimate kids outside, being the other woman. You claimed not to know the man was married in this same Lagos. A man theat is obviously a chief, and you just needed to ask someone that knows him? You claimed ignorance in that one. You also lost custody of your own kid after your first lover died. Madam, if any woman cries in her husbands house because of you the other woman. Dont ever expect to find a good man or a peaceful home. This is karma, and yours was on the world stage. Karma bites harder like 1000x. When you did your own you did it at night, but sun don shine for your yansh now, all your "mistakes" are now in the open. Typical gold digger and opportunist looking to lay eggs where ever there is money. mtschhew.Abeg, gba fun olorun jare. Am sure you have already sighted your next baby daddy. Too bad okotie no fit produce. The guy just escape, na why you dey cry like this.

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  15. An open letter to Stephanie-

    What has happened has happened dear. Time to move on..

    Hopefully you will meet a good man soon that'll be ready to have you in matrimony forever..

    But, judging from past, your first son is probably comfortable, being taken care of by his father's people (I hope they didn't cut him off after making contacts with you)
    Now, I wonder how you will take care of yourself & your sons from chief as I doubt chief will be willing to pick up your bills. Not after leaving him for Chris O. And surely after chief and Chris O, your lifestyle must be high end. Big gal!

    Anyhow, whilst you're waiting for your heaven sent hubby/man, I suggest you hook up with awon Lagos/Abuja big gals. You 'gast' to hook yourself up with an aristo or two sharp sharp! Oh, I forgot it was mentioned that you're born again! Haha...Abegi, you and I know that's a lie! You are a very high roller! Who has been lucky to find rich big boys to catch so far... All your men have something in common, wealth!
    I'm sure being a beautiful woman, different men must have asked for your hand in marriage at one point or another, poor/humble men inclusive. But you always go for the rich..

    You don't sound very smart to me, but I hope you were able to acquire properties and/or have investments... If not, you better go find em aristos sharp sharp! If not, next time we see you, you go don wowor pass monkey!!

    A word is enough.......

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    1. How can u be so mean??? I doubt u know ds woman personally. Thank God ur not God and so she's not answerable 2 U. Whatever names u like call her, we know according 2 d bible d "aristos" wld make heaven before u holy rollers!!! Smh.

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  16. She is a beauty to behold shaaaa! #POKO

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  17. Oh, I 4got to add..

    Another option is for you to go and beg chief and tell him it was the work of the devil!
    The way I see it, you should have stayed put with chief jeje in the first place. After all, you won't be the first or last woman to be a baby mama. But alas, as per Oliver twist, you wanted more!!

    Me, i'm a happily married woman o. But if a woman has 2 kids for my hubby, mad as I'll be, I'll allow him fend for the kids but never ever marry her. Period. No room for second wife in our home. Abi seton I go do? What's don is done.

    One last thing, you better act fast. The beauty of a woman is only temporary!!

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    1. Dat 1st epistle u wrote no do u, u cum join anoda 1

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    2. I guess she's pained...hehehehehehe

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    3. Holy Mary Magdalene aka TrueYarns, we hear u. Pple like u r happily married 2 a husband who is also happily sowing his wild oats everywhere.

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  18. DAMN! u all r pathatic nd crude! jeeezzz! why u guys judging dis poor woman? nobody knows what really happened only her the pastor and GOD! it can happen to anyone....thou shall not judge!

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    1. Who is judging who, she judged herself by letting emconium print this pathetic story of hers, an adult has 3 kids for different men out of wedlock and still claims born again through out the period. God is watching us all from his throne.issoriat

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  19. The piece on her life lacks credibility to me.Only the people involved know the truth. She is pretty woman so she will find someone to love her

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  20. Dis information doesn't help her course at all. We all know dey don't make single men chiefs. Madam becos of free flat you form not knowing dey born for person wey neva marry you. Who does that?? You were just a kept woman/mistress. You ppl shld not hv tried to paint her as a saint. Its not selling at all

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  21. ONOME says........
    If I talk too much;they shall say "thou shall not judge".I will talk anyway.

    I seriously detest it when people fall back on the "born again" card.I think it makes a mockery of religion and of God when people who have obviously "sinned" not once,not twice but thrice come out to make it as though they were victims of the whole charade.If God were man...hmmmmm.

    It's bad enough when a young woman decides (yes I say decides;what sort of yeye mistake is that one?Even children as young as 10yrs of age know that unprotected sex leads to a foetus and then a child!) to have a child without the cover and assurance of marriage;she should be willing to do her crying alone.You then commit the same fallacy a second and then a third time???????lolllllll.Oh geh;wake up o.Your story fools no one but you.As someone has so graciously pointed out;the common denominator amongst your conquests is money,kudi,owo,ego,igho.So spare me hian!

    Good luck to you girlie.3children out of wedlock ke?Olorun o ni je o.I didn't fit o.Ladies open your eyes wellllll and close your legs.Having and maintaining kids while married is not easy o;having them without marriage,that one no jell.Arrant nonsense.

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  22. It's not like "ko lori oko", most women that are attractive think only wealthy men should marry them. Then they end up being used...
    Stephanie from my view seems like a glutton who likes money and once a man has it, she can open legs. Even at that, she wasn't smart about it.
    If you're dating a wealthy man, pls investigate his background, facebook makes "ofofo" easier these days.
    In late 90s with no flowing internet, I investigated the only Naija I dated. And pronto, he had wife in Naija and wanted me as a London wife!!!
    Born again for 20 years and three men. Ejor oh, ema rubbish the term born again.
    As per her not regular in church, she was never liked there so she may not feel comfy.
    Now the likes of Shola will be happy!

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  23. square root of 6930 July, 2012 07:41

    Na calabar babe nah, hehehe what do u expect

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    1. Lmao!! Shuoooooooo!

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  24. God bless u Onome.Let people begin to speak the truth.Who is fooling who?

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  25. Lets not be deceived, the truth is yet to come. From all ramification, she has been married. How can one give birth to three out of marriage and yet a born again christian. if that is the case, she is either loose or stupid.

    Secondly, this lady live expensive life , which most men might not entertain for a longer time, when they get tired, they have no choice than to throw her out.

    Let not sympathize with ill manner character becos such believe will inflict a course. This Lady abandoned okey after 2 children to chris because she felt that okey will not meet up her demands.let her come openly and denied that she didn't know that okey was married and she gave him two children.( serious adultery ). how long does it take to produce two babies? base on their spacing, 3-4 yrs, so within these period,saint Stephanie was not able to find out ? Now it was when Chris came that he ran to his arms for defense.

    I don't want to talk, but give her little time, she will come out with different pathetic publication again . Stephanie tell the truth and repent. If i were to advise, stop all that you are doing, go silent and take care of your kids. reduce your expensive life style and be a real mother. excessive demand you turn a man off and could lure a woman into so many things.

    besides, efik women like sex alot, a bi man of God no sabi do? hahahahahahahah.

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  26. From experience, I've realised that when people always try to paint a positive picture of themselves, they have something to hide. Light cannot be covered. If you are good, you shouldn't have to reiterate it. People will see it.
    This entire write up tries to play her up as 'naïve', but ends up making her look like she has something to hide. I don't know about y'all, but its not working for me. *bb not interested smiley*
    Pastor Chris is no saint either. They should both look for ways to resolve this without all these undue shenanigans.

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  27. Why does a pastor need an "image maker"? What am I saying this is a Nigerian "pastor" we are talking about.

    @ 2012 bride: who is shola Abeg? Take tori nack me :)

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  28. Woman with a checkered past + Pastor with dodgy hair= Disaster waiting to happen. QED!

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  29. Lol@ the comments. Normally, we need to stay out of married folks problems cos its their bizness not ours. However, in this case, they are public figures, hence the curiosity.

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  30. this is SUPER STORY..............

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  31. Adalove, hahhaha, I am blushing too ooo hhehehe. Thanks a lot!

    Danny, Just Google consumer advocacy forum (Nigeria) or purrples consult, the Sola S. that comes up is the one.

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  32. Sola S though Pastor Chris was going to marry her , she worked so hard for the church as the administrator for several years and also worked as *****(fill in the blanks) ............ Last minute he dumps her and marry Stephanie .

    At 45years old now , not an easy age to be dumped. Thats Life, stephanie got the ring but sadly couldnt keep it on for more than 4years. What happened to till death do us part . They all need deliverance

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  33. Leave story for tortoise30 July, 2012 11:44

    Thinking a man will marry you and a man actually wanting to marry you are two different things……..The earlier women figure which one it is the better for them . How can Stephanie be painted as if she didn’t know it was a fraud in her second union?

    By the time she discovered she was pregnant why didn’t they quickly marry before her 2nd child was born so she can stop living in sin. She even went and had a 3rd child…o please , I think she knew all along that he was a married man and when it didn’t work she plays the victim. Good christians marry before baby/sex

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  34. One of you...30 July, 2012 11:51

    First of all... I wouldn't call Chris Okotie a very rich man! To be he's okay comfortable, Super rich Nooo!!

    I think Ms Steph was looking for love and acceptance, sometime very beautiful woman tend to have bad luck in love.

    I believe it is wrong to judge her as none of us is perfect or right in the sight of God, but for the Grace of God!

    Jesus's best friend was Mary Magdalene who was a famous prostitue. His disciples where made up of all sorts and all kinds including tax collectors who are modern day 419s or thieving politicians....

    When a woman was caught in adultery, Jesus did not condem rather he showed her compassion and forgiveness.

    Let us not be quick to judge because if the light is shone on us, there will be so many parts to our lives that will make everyone cringe!!

    I'm just saying!!!

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  35. =))º°˚˚˚°ºbuwaнaĦaнaº°˚˚˚°º‎​= seriously loving †ђξ comments on this blog i swear, oya pls keep more coming....this woman go hear wein tuday, lmao!!

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  36. hmmmn, Somehow, I'm not truly convinced he slept with those women (SS, VT, RA and co.). My belief is he knew that they wanted him and he preyed on that knowledge and used them well for his own benefit and that of his Ministry and Ambitions. Alagbari ni oga mugu.

    Na Auntie S own pain me pass; do church administrator, was on his campaign team travelling to North risking her life, even changed her name to Sarah at a time claiming it was a signal of marvellous things to come. *Yimu* gbogbo e gbogbo e no da, pabo lo jasi!

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    1. Abeg,Fatima tell us d first names within those initials so we can google d rest.
      Give us clues too.

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    2. VT= Vien Tetsola

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  37. Fatimah the guy is a known lecherous git. You forgot to add Queen Ure & Uduak/Uddy. Plus some of them were doing jazz for him even this damsel. He slept with all of them. Vien is now back to his church now Steph has left. The guy is a male principality. He truly jammed with this lady. Serves all of them right. They are mocking Christianity.

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  38. Anon 30 July, 2012 07:27 i hope God cured you of your naivety. I don't mean it in a bad way.

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  39. Hummmm Food for thought ???? . Can a girl really claim that she dated a guy for 1, 2 or even more years , saw him regularly and didn’t know he was married . I really find it hard to believe that she could have missed signs on the wall .

    How does he explain his absence when he is with his other family .

    What of marriage talk unko .Doesn’t that come up and meeting his extended family

    Can he get married to you without olofofo bringing the gist to you that he is married

    When you were dating him , didn’t you dig around his past even if it is for curiosity CAT sake

    I am trying to walk in that shoe for a minute and still can’t see how people miss the sign. I might be miss it first 6 months (well not really) but Date him for years and not know that he is married with kids....

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  40. Have you all removed the log in ur eyes bf helping anotha person remove deirs,d only thing nigerians re good at doun is judging Otha people.

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  41. TEN Commandments of Waiting- www.princessofzion.wordpress.com/2012/07/30/10-commandments-of-waiting

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    1. Fuck out of here! Mimi!

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  42. stephanie and chris need to stop talking go on their knees and ask for forgiveness from GOD.and we should too GOD is not mocked.JESUS save us pls.

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  43. None of us are claiming perfection. We're just having a discussion and stating the obvious from known fact. Abeg if you don't have any meaningful gist to contribute, keep it moving jor!

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  44. 7 children 7 father , just when i thought 3 children by 2 men was bad enough. Na wah all these na BEAUTY with no SUBSTANCE. E better make i dey find ugly girl when i won marry then.

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  45. This story get so many K-legs and obiviously the foundation was not right
    **i have heard the gist before that his wife came several times to beg Steph to leave her husband alone . I heard that gist even before she married Pastor Chris

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  46. @09:01 and 07:27 .......Its not that hard to tell if a man is married . Once you are in a serious relationship with a man start digging his past and present . If he is married that will come up . Its a lot harder if the wife is based in anoda country but if you are in the same country .... give it 4months of digging, you will see the writting on the wall

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    1. True talk!! Met married man on plane and whilst getting to know each other I noticed he would say good bye as he reached his or be calling me whilst in the toilet. I did my investigation and proceeded to curse the hell of of him and also told him to lose my number.

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  47. @anon 08;59
    tripple twaley for you o,I'm starting to rethink my stance on this lady o kai
    when a woman is overfine sometimes the beauty will attract all sorts of problems

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  48. @ Fatimah, Anon 5.30 and everyone that answered me, thank you o. I throwaway salute. Chai! Su Pastor Chris kenan, preach finish go administrate for house. #nawah

    Buhahaha @ pastor with dodgy hair.

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  50. Chineke!

    See as my yarns pain una! @all my replies! Na the so called big gals husband snatchers be that. Una kpele o! The truth they say is a bitter pill...
    God forbid me to sabi una or the lady in question. Thank God say una acknowledge say I don marry. Oh yes, happily so! If u want make my hubby use in oko fire u, na so una 4 talk now!! Abi which one is sowing his seeds? Una think say everybody resemble una papa! Tufiakwa!

    P.S- save your replies o! I'm off to get some correct spanking from my hubby whilst u guys have nightmares from my post. I'm sure after the spanking, I no go get energy to return to this blog in a very longtime!

    Cheers darlings!! #fartsinyourfaces

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